Sunday, May 20, 2018

May 20th (3 Months!) Update

Yall my cut is almost OVER!! I'm so ready! Some milestones were hit in the past month and I'm just so ready for my back to be healthy again so I can get back into lifting! Anyways, I've got two weeks left on this cut and here's where I am:

Initial Measurements 2/20/2018:
Weight: 152
Waist: 31.5
Hips: 39.5
Bust: 34.5
Thighs: 24.5
Arms: 12

Measurements 5/20/18
Weight: 141
Waist: 30
Hips: 38
Bust: 32
Thighs: 22.5
Arms: 11

So far I'm really freaking excited about these numbers. Considering that I really hadn't changed much in weight or inches from Feb-Apr (3 pounds, 4.75 inches lost total), I'm extremely proud of myself. If you add it up, I've lost 8 pounds and an additional TEN inches between April and now. So in total, from February to now, I'm down 11 pounds and 14.25 inches. So. Stoked.

I'm going to continue this cut through the end of May, and will be kicking off June 1st with a year long recomp. For those of yall not really acquainted with it, a recomp is where you are trying to maintain your weight, but work on muscle. SO ideally, whatever weight I am June 1st, I want to be the same weight on June 1st next year (a couple of pounds with way will be okay) but I want to look completely different. I'm a little nervous though, because its definitely going to be an adjustment eating at maintenance calories and doing more lifting than I have been, if my back cooperates of course.

Unfortunately I wasn't able to compete in May with the Beastmode games thanks to this wonderful back injury, but I did complete my 5k under my goal which was 36 minutes. 

Anyway, I'm sure some of yall are curios what I've been doing the past 5 weeks to drop the weight. The secret? Cardio, cardio, cardio. And diet, obviously. I aimed to 1200 NET calories a day, so I'd eat around 1500 then do minimum 250-300 cals at the gym 3-4 days a week. I've been doing a lot of running, some biking and a good bit of rowing depending on how my back feels that day. Now keep in mind I loathe running. But, now that I see what kind of results it yields, it will always have a special spot in my training. Once the recomp starts, you don't really focus on cardio as much. I'll plan on 2 strict cardio days a week, the rest will be lifting & crossfit workouts. So that pretty much wrapped up the past 5 weeks, now here's some pictures! I'll post one more round of pics and an update once I start the recomp so that I have something to compare it to.






Monday, April 9, 2018

April 9th

So I slacked and never updated a second time in March... whoops! I promise I started to but never got it finished or could get pictures done. So I decided when I got home from work today that would be the first thing I'd do. Honestly there is nothing better to jump start a cut than taking progress pictures (insert eye roll here). Can you say reality check?!

So late in February I did something to my back during back squats and it has really bothered me since then. Clearly I need to work on form once I get back to doing them, but its really put a damper on me. My doctor (whose husband does Crossfit, yay!) just recommended doing less weights, more cardio and yoga. I've started yoga but probably haven't been resting it like I should so I figured now would be as good of a time as any to start a cut. Now I'm not "dieting" per say, but i do need to get my body fat percentage down because being at (or around) 30% BF is not doing me any favors mentally or physically. Why should I kill myself to try doing a pull up when I literally have 15 (25 if I wanted to go extra small) extra pounds weighing me down?! So This week I'm starting with 1600 calories a day and cutting back as much sugar as possible. Maybe next month I'll look more into cutting carbs, but I don't do well on super restrictive diets.


Progress

Here's where I'm at physically: I kicked my cut off with my very first EVER 5k yesterday, on a treadmill of course, but still I was stoked! I'm the girl that hates running. I'd rather row or swim but running just makes me want to die. To me, its mind numblingly boring and my shins hate me for days afterwards. So, running 3 miles in 38 minutes is huge to me. Of course the Swamp Rabbit 5k is in less than a month so leave it to me to procrastinate training for it.

Last week I hit a big milestone on bench: 125lbs! I'm literally 10 pounds away from my goal for the entire 2018 year! Its only April! So I've adjusted that goal to 150 for the year. Here's to hitting that goal early too! 

Another big goal I've settled on this year would be hitting a good snatch. Lets be honest here, I SUCK at snatches. I absolutely cannot get to parallel, much less beyond, with a bar over head. So I've been working on my shoulder, hip, and thoracic mobility as much as possible-which is where the yoga comes in. Holy cow, I am so not flexible. Its humiliating. So hopefully even 30 minutes a day will improve my mobility. 

Last but not least, my other new goal is doing a handstand. This is also where losing 15 pounds would help drastically. Plus shoulder mobility is needed. I'm just all around lacking in those departments.

Mentally, I'm alot better than I was but I still have a long way to go. I did two-a-days one to two times a week through March and literally lost about 2 pounds. My diet is all over the place and I know it. If you haven't yet, get a My Fitness Pal account and track every single thing that you eat/drink for a day. You will be shocked. And even though I've been tracking for months, I wasn't adding in sauces, butters, oils, etc. I know that doesnt sound like much, but did you know Chic-Fil-A sauce is 140 calories per container. That's another 300 calories on top of my grilled chicken meal. That's turning a meal that's around 500 calories into a 800 calorie meal. On a 6'4" man, that isn't a big deal, but when you 5'4" and have a calorie limit of 1600, that adds up fast. Plus I was being very lax in general when it came to food. "I'm working out twice a day, I'm not worried about this extra hundred calories here and there" is a quick and sure fire way to kill your progress. I learned this the hard way. Don't do that to yourself! It's so discouraging!

So hopefully April will yield more progress when it comes to losing the weight. Here's my dreaded progress pics (the husband wasn't here to help so had to go with the self time and zero help form angling the camera) and my measurements. Let's see what this body will do in the next month!


Weight: 149
BMI: 25.6
Body Fat %: 27%
Waist: 31
Hips: 38.75
Bust: 34.5
Thighs: 23.8
Arms: 11.25 (relaxed)




Saturday, March 3, 2018

March 3rd Update

Life: The past two weeks have been pretty busy. I've been aiming for 5 days a week minimum at the gym and even that is hard to accomplish! I'll follow up more on gym stuff a few bullets down, but so far I've kept my 5 day a week goal! Work has been crazy and kids have been sick off and on. Noah had the flu during my last post and so I had to take some extra days off unexpectedly which threw a wrench in things. The following week I had a two day summit with my work, which hit my diet pretty hard (free lunch and breakfast anyone?) but overall I think I did pretty well. 

Diet: I think I may have hit my stride diet wise. Rather than strictly counting calories, I've been focusing a bit more on macros. I'm still aiming for my 1400 calorie per day goal but if I go over a bit I don't stress too badly over it. Mainly I've focused on protein. I did my macro goal on a TDEE calculator and that has really made the calorie counting easier. Mentally its easier to think "I've got to get my protein in for today, so do I have to eat this rather than that" instead of "I cant eat this because my calories say so." Plus its been said that protein and fat help you feel fuller and I can say I agree. My protein goal is 140 grams per day and my fat goal is 62 grams, while my carb goal is 70 grams (normally i hit around 50 grams. The protein doesn't leave me much calorie room for carbs). My meals are normally protein heavy and I have to eat one protein bar and drink one protein shake (post workout) to hit my goal every day.
Example meals are:
  • Breakfast: 5 hard boiled egg whites and one avocado
  • Lunch: Home made chicken salad with celery sticks
  • Lunch: Spinach Salad with grilled chicken and lite ranch
  • Dinner: Chicken thighs or breasts and veggies
  • Impromptu quick meal: Rotisserie chicken from Ingles, Walmart, etc (Get two and shred one for chicken salad the next day!) 
  • Snacks: Quest bars or protein shake
Its pretty easy to work things around your kids and husband this way to, because you can add some carbs and stuff for kids while I eat things a little plainer.

Gym: Okay so the first week was ROUGH. I failed to hit any of my previous maxes, I killed my poor shins and busted my mouth doing push presses. My weight bumped up a bit (Hello PMS). It was overall just a bad week. I took my rest days on Wednesday & Sunday but just wasn't feeling it all week.
Week two, I killed it. I hit two new PRs (personal record for those curious) and completed my first every open workout (18.2-modified to back squats rather than dumbbell because our gym doesn't have enough equipment). First PR was on bench- I hit 115 and was really feeling 120 but took too long of a break in between. Oh well, there's always next month! My next PR was on power cleans, which I think was my proudest PR so far. I attempted it on the first week and flopped. I barely could get 100 even after 3 attempts. The second week, 18.2 consisted of finding your 1RM(one rep max) clean, I figured after all those squats I would be DEAD. After 3 attempts (mainly getting form down) I got 115 easily. SO PUMPED! I took a week off of pretty much all running to heal my shins so I'll be working on that next week again. Plus I did Mon-Fri workouts this week and two rest days back to back. By Friday I was losing the motivation to go and was feeling so tired mentally, but I also hit my power clean PR on that day. Its all between the ears!

Progress: Okay so I'm not doing pictures on these updates- I'll probably do them on either monthly updates or every 6 weeks or so. But here are my numbers! (SO EXCITED!)I'm skipping all the extras this update and just hitting the main ones.

Weight: 150
Waist: 30.75
Hips: 39.25
Bust: 34.25
Thighs: 24
Arms: 11.75
All in all, I am very happy with these numbers. I've had some days where I was feeling extremely discouraged, but who doesn't? As long as my numbers keep on this trend, I'll stick with this diet and routine. There are rumors that we may be hosting a power-lifting competition at our gym by summer, so I'm really hoping that happens. It would be super nice to not only hit my yearly goals by then but also do an actual competition at something I'm really growing to love and feel confident doing. I cant wait to see what the next few months hold! 

Wednesday, February 21, 2018

Peruvian Anticuchos De Corazon

            

First and foremost I want to be extremely clear that this is not my original recipe. Secondly, it is by far the best heart recipe that I have ever put in my mouth. Like, it change my husband's life good. So I just had to add it to my recipe list because it just needs to be spread to the world!
             So I got this recipe book for Christmas called "Buck, Buck, Moose" by Hank Shaw. If you love venison, I suggest you drop everything and buy this book right now. Anyway, so we had killed a doe really late in the season and her heart wasn't touched so I suggested we make it for dinner. Now Brandon never had good deer heart at this point and he was vehemently against it. "Just put lots of bacon on it and I'll try it," he would say. I had already eyeballed this recipe in the book so I knew this was exactly what I was going to do with it whether he wanted it or not. 
           So when it came down to the day of cooking, I actually didn't have all the ingredients that I thought I had so I did some improvisation to the recipe. Honestly it tasted so good the way I did it that I don't think I would add those extra ingredients if I had them on hand right now. So here's the ingredient list:
  • 3 Roasted red peppers, chopped (I did NOT use these in my version)
  • 1-4 Chipotles in adobo, 1 being mild, 4 being very hot. Use your discretion.
  • 1 tablespoon minced garlic
  • 1/4 cup red wine vinegar
  • 1 tablespoon dried oregano
  • 1/2 cup vegetable oil
  • Salt
  • 1 teaspoon ground cumin
  • 2 to 4 venison hearts trimmed and cut into 3 inch pieces.
  • Skewers
  • My addition-bacon
Before anything, prep your venison heart. Trim off ALL ligaments & silver skin. You're gonna have a bad time if you don't. Also, this is more of an appetizer recipe so unless you have a ton of hearts to use you wont be able to feed a football team with this recipe.

Mix all the marinade ingredients into a food processor and blend until pureed. Take your heart pieces, using a meat tenderizer, and flatten a bit. You want the meat tenderized but not paper thin. Submerge the heart pieces into the marinade and let sit for at least one hour-preferably most of the day. About and hour before cooking, soak your wooden skewers in water to prevent burning.



Once you're ready to cook, put the heart onto the skewers. I took the piece of bacon and threaded it in between each piece. I only did this because my husband was adamant that heart is nasty and he needed bacon to cancel it out. I'll probably use bacon every time I make this though because it was really good. Grill on very high heat with the grill cover open. Make sure to keep an eye on it because bacon fat has a tendency to flare up on the grill. Baste with remaining marinade as it cooks, about 3 minutes per each side. You don't want to over cook it or it can get very chewy. If you're not a fan of rare meat, I suggest you stay as close to medium as you're comfortable with. 

Let rest a few minutes after cooking and enjoy! By the way, Brandon had a melt down. He was tempted to call the local processor and ask if he could buy all the hearts he had! Luckily the processor didn't have much cause I'm kind of weird about getting organ meat from anywhere that I didn't see how the animal was handled after the shot. So if you decide to keep some organ meat form your deer next year, I definitely recommend the heart for starters!  



Tuesday, February 20, 2018

February 20th- Getting Started

          I've been meaning to make this post for a while but I just keep forgetting.. Well not forgetting as much as I never get to blog before 9 pm and I'm tired. Anyway, if I don't hurry up and post these stats while I'm at them, they're going to change and I'll forget where I was. 
I guess maybe I've been putting this post off because it's a super vulnerable post for me. I've never be comfortable in my skin, with my weight, or my physique so this is a huge leap of faith for me. I want to be as transparent as possible with everyone that may read this blog.
          Side bar; I'm sure there are people out there who have thought, "why in the world would she be blogging about fitness. I mean she is FAR from fit!" And I halfway agree. I'm very far from being fit, I'm very far ( and never will be) perfect, and I'm far from being super inspirational to people. But at the same time, there has been so many times that I've thought to myself while going through this journey, "man, I wish someone with my goals posted something." I don't want to compete in bikini competitions. I don't want to run marathons. I don't want to be a crazy heavy power lifter. I don't want to swear off pizza for the rest of my life. I just want to be able to lift heavy things, look good in a bikini, and run a few miles without dying. I want to see what my body can do. And if there's anyone else out there who feels the same way, well maybe I can inspire them.  
            Brandon and I had a serious conversation one night when I was feeling down on myself after a super poor performance at the gym ( I say this like it was months ago and it was like last week). I had been intermittent fasting for about a month, doing 16:8 some days and 18:6 others, and my performances plummeted. I was tired. I wasn't that hungry, but I wasn't losing weight either. I was getting obsessive with my calorie intake on My Fitness Pal. Things just were going in an unhealthy direction very, very quickly. Anyway, I binged for like three days straight and felt super bad about myself. So Brandon pretty much told me I needed to decide on what I wanted to do. 
              "Do you want to do hours of cardio and be crazy restrictive on your diet? Because if you do that, your lifts will decrease but you will lose the weight. Or do you want to get stronger and be happy? Because you may not realize it, but there's always someone watching. Maybe not every single gym session, but I guarantee there's girls in that gym who think "Man, I wish I was as strong as her". So quit being mad at yourself, because you are good at this whether you believe it or not and you should have fun doing it."
That conversation led me back to this blog and here we are. So let me go ahead and give you the numbers and pictures before I back out. 
Weight: 152
BMI: 26
Body Fat %: 27%
Waist: 31.5
Hips: 39.5
Bust: 34.5
Thighs: 24.5
Arms: 12 
BMR: 1,414 kcals
TDEE: 1,749 kcals
Daily calorie goal: 1400. (Macros: 40% Protein, 40% Fat, & 20% Carbs)



       I'll try to start posting weekly, or at least bi-weekly with progress. I probably will only do pictures once a month because I am not a fan! Also I saw a quote on a documentary that summed up exactly where I want to be fitness wise- "I want to outrun a powerlifter & out lift a runner." Well rounded fitness is my goal so here we go! Week one is a go!
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Thursday, February 15, 2018

Switching Gears

It's been nearly 3 years since I've posted. In those years, I've gained a daughter, some random knowledge, and a whole new love: fitness.
I've been wanting to post for a long time, but with a blog that's pretty much following an 'exclusively hunting' theme you kind of run out of things to say. Not to say that I don't love hunting nor that I don't plan on posting about hunting anymore, it's just hard to post about the it all the time without sounding like I'm beating a dead horse, especially if I'm not going to exciting new places anytime soon. Anyway, after much thought, I've decided to blog about my journey into fitness. 
Now some background; in 2015, Brandon and I started visiting a local gym. I quickly learned just how out of shape I and how badly I wanted to get in shape. But then, in the summer of 2015, we decided we wanted another baby. So naturally gym time slowed down due to morning (all day) sickness, swollen feet, a sore back, and a rowdy toddler. Finding a gym with a babysitter was a feat in its own, so gym time came to a complete halt. In July 2016, we welcome our little Elizabeth Claire into the world. Now this may be in my head, or it may be a true physiological reason, but I really feel like the nearly one year we spent in the gym prior to becoming pregnant helped my labor, birth and recovery 10 times more than when I had Noah. Maybe it was the squats, maybe it was the deads, I don't know what it was, but there was a huge difference; and it really has influenced me to want to get in the best shape possible. 
After Claire was born, we had to wait 6 months before we could take her to the gym daycare (thank goodness for the YMCA!) so I really didn't do much diet wise before we started. This theme continued all the way through the year 2017. All gym, no diet. Therefore, I'm only 8 pounds down from where I was in January 2017. So I will be the first to admit that 2017 was a learning year. I learned a lot, and I did make gains- considering I was pretty much on a "bulk" all year (insert eye roll emoji here). On my next blog post I'll post all my current stats, I don't want to overload everyone with information here. I will say that I did drop 2 pants sizes and have maintained that, but there's still a lot of cutting that needs to be done. 
Now here's what we did gym wise in 2017. Normally warm up with cardio; jogging, stationary bike, elliptical, pretty much whatever was open and  whatever I felt like doing. There were plenty of times that I went and did no cardio at all. Most days, we followed a crossfit type routine. My husband prefers just straight powerlifting, but I always felt like I needed to do more than that to burn the fat like I wanted. The YMCA in our location does a "Beast Mode" class. The first class I ever did consisted of an obscene amount of thrusters and burpees and I completely fell in love. The instructors were ( and still are) straight up amazing. They would leave the daily class up so we could do them in the evenings. There were plenty of weeks that I would do these classes 4 & 5 times. I did see results. My lifts increased, my cardio became bullet proof, and you could definitely see definition (especially in my upper body) that wasn't there before. But the scale never moved. My clothes fit the same for months. Now that was discouraging. By the end of the end of the year, I had to take a 6 week hiatus. My husband played softball which took up one, sometimes two weeknights, and my son played T-ball which also took up two weeknights. After that came the holidays, so essentially I went to the gym maybe once a week until the beginning of January.  My lifts dropped dramatically. Cardio game was weak.  It's time to crack down.

So January first came, and instead of the traditional "lose 25lbs" resolution, I decided to make legitimate goals that I want to hit this year.
  • Do a 5k- The swamp rabbit 5K is coming May 4th, so I've been working on my cardio game.
  • Bench- 135lbs.
  • Deadlift- 285lbs
  • Squat- 215
  • Clean & Jerk (Power or hang)- 135lb
Now I may come up with other goals as the year goes on, but for now this is where I'm at. The month of January was the first time that I really tried cracking down. The results were not what I expected, but I'll touch on that on my next blog. I think I've given yall enough info for tonight, and I've got a flu positive almost 5 year old in the other room, so the bed is calling my name. 

Also, if yall haven't gotten the hint yet, by switching gears, I'm going to start emphasizing fitness on this blog. I don't and never will claim to be an expert, but I want to share with yall my story. No one else, nothing fancy, just a chubby girl who wants to make gains and get fit. So I'm super excited that I get to share this journey from the very beginning with yall! 
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Tuesday, May 12, 2015

South Carolina: A State on the Rise

When you think of monster whitetail, what states come to mind first?  Iowa? Ohio? Southern Texas? I bet South Carolina probably wouldn't be your first choice, would it? I mean, even Michael Waddell has said that deer hunting in south ain't the easiest thing. South Carolina may be known for its insanely long seasons (starting mid August in parts of the state) and the fact that its one of few states that still allow deer hunting with dogs, but it's quality of deer is starting to rise as well.
 
 
 In the world of record whitetail, South Carolina has never made much of an appearance. The state record typical comes in at 176, and the state record non typical is a respectable 208 5/8. Those scores are pretty average when compared to some of the Midwestern monsters that are harvested every year, like the Albia buck who came in at 307 5/8 net inches. Plus, our deer aren't that big body wise either. The average buck in South Carolina weighs 150lbs, while bucks in Iowa average about 250lbs, and not to mention there was a buck recorded in Minnesota that weighed in at 402 field dressed. It's no mystery that the deer down here can't hold a candle to our northern neighbors in that respect.
 
South Carolina, however, has some amazing opportunities that you'll be hard pressed to find in other states.
 
We have one of longest seasons in country. Our season begins August 15th on private lands in certain game zones, which means that we have the earliest opener for gun hunting in North America. Velvet bucks with a rifle, anyone?
We also generous bag limits. With the purchase of antlerless tags, you can harvest up to nine antlerless deer in a season. In two out of the six game zones, you have a limit of five bucks per season. In the other four zones you have no limit on antlered deer. All in all, with doe tags, the right location, and hunting appropriate days, you can harvest an unlimited amount of deer in this state. Even with limits imposed, you can take fourteen deer per person. 
We allow hunting with dogs. Driving with dogs is a pretty hot debate among deer hunters in the state. Most are either completely against it, or 100% for it. I've never tried but I wouldn't mind giving it a shot. However, I do understand what people say when they point out how high the risk of wounding and not recovering an animal is. Its a tradition that's been around for most of the states history, plus its an effective way to quickly thin herds. With that being said, I'm sure its quite a challenge to make a good, clean, ethical shot on a deer running at top speed through a thicket.  
 
For many years, people lived by the mentality "if it's brown, it's down," but I feel like that's finally heading out the door. I've seen more record book deer being taken every year. I've seen more people pushing the "let em grow" lifestyle. South Carolina DNR has shared numbers that show direct correlation between reasonable herd sizes (management) and the number of record book deer produced. Their website states that during much of the 1980s, the statewide deer population and deer harvest were around one half of what they are today. However, a tremendous number of deer were harvested that made the records list. In fact, the period between 1982 & 1992 accounts for approximately 35% of all records. With more people as well as our government pushing for quality rather than quantity, its no surprise that South Carolina is beginning to catch the eyes of trophy hunters around the country. The state is showing fantastic potential to become one of the trophy states of the south.
 



To qualify for the record book in South Carolina, typical bucks must be at least 125 inches, and non typicals must be no less than 145 inches. In 2014, 222 new records were entered out of 569 submissions. 213 of those were typical and 9 were non typical, including one Boone & Crockett qualifier, not to mention the 347 other close calls who missed the record book by a few inches. SC DNR has stated that about one in every 800 deer will qualify for the record book. 2014 has ranked as the third highest number of entries in the last ten years, and has actually had a few less entries than the 2012 & 2013 seasons.

 

 

If you're curious about the kind of deer being harvested, check out sites like South Carolina Big Bucks and South Carolina Sportsman . You might be surprised in the quality of deer being taken throughout each season. I've pulled some of the best ones I could find and shared them below.

Austin Reed. 10 Point with drop tine. 142 3/8 gross score. Laurens, SC.

Chuck Mulkey 10 point. 154 7/8 gross. Anderson, SC.

Dalton Smith 16 point. 154 2/8. Chesnee, SC.

Gary Wicker 10 point. 160 3/8 gross. Newberry, SC.

Katlin Owen 8 point. 134.5 gross. Pickens, SC.

Kelly Mcabee 11 point. 150 gross. Gaffney, SC.

Michael Weathrford 8 point 142 3/8 gross. Eutawville, SC.

Found on roadside in Pickens County, SC.

Stede Record 18 point. Score unknown. Berkley, SC.




South Carolina may never become a trophy hunting mecca like other states, but it's deer are becoming more and more respectable. Since 2002, our deer population has been on the decline while our quality of deer have risen dramatically. With South Carolina legislature finally considering stricter limits on harvests, I can only see the quality of deer taken rising even more. If our legislature approves these limits, hunters will most likely not squander their tags like in past years. You may not see South Carolina in your near future for a trophy deer hunt, but I'm willing to bet its doing to be making a name for itself in the next few years. When you change your mind, we'll be waiting to welcome you and show you what its like hunting in the palmetto state. Until then, hunt hard and God bless!

Tuesday, March 31, 2015

Respect the Bird

If there's one thing I've noticed about turkeys, its that people either love to hunt them, or they've never really been. I can count on one hand how many people have told me they just don't care for turkey hunting. Those few told me the story of their first time, and I can see why they never went back. So on the eve of the South Carolina's 2015 season, I want to persuade you to give it one more shot.
 

 
 
I've heard it said that turkey hunting isn't a challenge and I couldn't disagree more. There has never been an animal that has kept me on my toes like a turkey does. There has been countless times when we've told ourselves "We've got him figured out now. By tonight he'll be dead" just to come home empty handed once again. There's been times when a hunt looked like a piece of cake from the car, but once the plan is in motion it takes four hours to even get a chance to seal the deal. Then once that opportunity comes you miss, which happens more often than you may think. I've been told "If you've never missed a turkey, you haven't hunted them long enough" and that is the mantra I live by when I feel the pressure closing in.
 
So lets say you've gone once, maybe twice, but never understood the obsession others had with turkey hunting. I'm not being pretentious here, but I'm going to try to tell you why and how to push through and really fall in love with turkey season.
 
 
You or your guide can't call. The reality of it sounds harsh, I know. You never touched a call in your life and you decided on March 30th you wanted to turkey hunt by April 1st. Or maybe your buddy who has never chased turkeys before watched some videos on YouTube and he's got it figured out. You go along and you don't hear or see a thing. You sit on the ground for three hours and the woods are dead. You know there are turkeys here because you've seen them all year round, but they've all disappeared that morning. Or worst yet, you have some fly down but practically run the other way once you start to call. That's enough to discourage most people from going a second or third time. But that's also how you learn. All these world champion callers didn't get that way over night. It takes hours and hours of practice to get good with a call. I've seen many people who don't sound great on a call still manage to kill birds every year. I'm far from being good with a call. I can struggle through some yelping but that's it. I know I'm not good enough to kill a bird on my own, but I've been blessed with a  husband who can rock a mouth call like no ones business. I know that if I would have went alone to try and figure out turkeys, I would have quit five years ago the moment I started. Find someone who knows what they're doing. Ask them for help and ask them to teach you. Research and practice. Soon you'll be calling well enough to get a bird in on your own, and you'll be so grateful you didn't give up.
 
You have absolutely no clue how to work a bird. There's a lot more to it than just throwing up some decoys and working a box call. Ever heard gobbles but they left you before you even had a chance to catch a glimpse? Yeah, it happens to all of us. Its a giant chess match. There are so many factors to killing a bird that it would make your head spin. What's hardest about hunting them is it's all trial and error in order to get experienced in the enigma that is the wild turkey. Quick quiz: You're hunting very mountainous public land. You've roosted your bird and he's cozied up with his hens at on the top of a ridge. How do you approach that bird the next morning? Now I came to my answer because we know how the birds work (most of the time) in the areas we hunt. You may be hunting areas where birds are completely opposite of what I'm used to. But if we wanted to get on that bird the next morning and have any chance of him leaving his hens, we would circle up that ridge and try to get on top of him. Around here, birds don't go downhill. In five years of hunting turkeys I've seen one gobbler come down a hill to a decoy. One out of the hundreds we've been on. Now say we're on this ridge. Do you call aggressive or softly? How are his hens acting? Are they acting like they're mad he's answering you? Or are they going the other way? What do you do next? All these things factor in to turkey hunting. The sooner you get out there and make mistakes and experience, the more you'll grow to love the challenge of it. And always remember there are exceptions to the rules. What you may have never expected to happen may just happen on your next hunt. That's the beauty of it!
You didn't stick with it. If you think all turkey hunts are like what's on the outdoor network, I hate to disappoint you. If you haven't killed a bird by 8:30, that doesn't mean stop until 3 PM. Public land around here clears out by nine in the morning, and that's our gain. Don't call it quits just because they didn't fly off the roost like you had planned. Don't give up just because they aren't being as vocal as you'd hoped. Don't go home because they're henned up. Every hunt is different and every hunt is an opportunity. Those who push through and persevere are the ones who bag birds, not those who hit up Hardees and are home by ten.
 
You wont humble yourself to ask for help. Its hard for us "big bad hunters" to sit back and say "I have no clue what I'm doing. Will you help teach me?" and truly listen. I've seen my husband try to give advice to so many people when they complain about not killing birds. Majority of them bow up, get offended, and continue doing what they have been doing (and yielding no birds). I've seen him take people to try and introduce them, but they think all they need are expensive decoys and calls and the rest is easy. It's ok to ask for help. Most turkey hunters I know would be ecstatic to take you and try to help you learn. We don't become turkey slayers after one hunt, and odds are you wont grow if you step out of your comfort zone.
 
These are just a few things that I see when people complain about turkey hunting and how they dislike it. Turkey hunting is an acquired taste, especially if you're used to deer hunting only. There is not waiting over bait or long range rifle shots during this season. Its all about the effort you put in to see what rewards come out. So with that I want to say good luck to all of you trying it this year, and don't give up if you fail at first! May all your tags be notched and your deep fryers be full this turkey season!
 

 
 
 

Wednesday, February 18, 2015

Rustic Bathroom Remodel!

Before & After!
 
This is the first of many remodels for us! We bought out house in August and though it was completely up to date, we wanted to redo some things for ourselves. We didn't want to spend a large sum of money so we resorted to a TON of DIY. Our total cost on this bathroom was $101.00 (which is probably my favorite thing about the whole experience!) Here's what we did:
 
* Paint Walls
* Paint Cabinets
* Paint Silver Hardware
*Paint Light Fixtures
*Barnwood Mirror
*Shelving Above Toilet
*Barnwood Table
*Rustic Towel Rack
*DIY Wall Décor
*New Rug
*Hung Doors to Hide Laundry Area
 
Sounds like a lot of stuff, but really we did it in a weekend. I got majority of the ideas off of Pinterest and am thoroughly pleased!
 
*Walls: Valspar "Office Blue"
*Cabinets: Olympic "Phantom Mist"
*Hardware: Rustoleum Oil Rubbed Bronze
 
The painting process really doesn't need to be explained, but I figured I'd share some of the projects I contributed to save some money. Fortunately, my father in law is a carpenter and he was more than gracious enough to provide the shelving, mirror, table, towel rack, antler hardware and toilet paper holder (last two not pictured). My first project was the European mount I restored. My in laws had this 5 point hung on their building for at least the last 5 years. I decided to try and fix it up and restore it, and I was really pleased with the results. First I had to reboil the skull (it was never skinned, so imagine beef jerky super glued to a skull) to soften up the tissue. After that it scraped, sanded, sprayed and scrubbed all the meat and grime off of it. I tried a couple coats of peroxide but the coloration was so distorted from years of the elements that I resorted to painting it. By this point, the antlers were bleached white as snow from the sun (once I scrubbed the green off). I had seen where people had stained antler so I figured id try it. Unfortunately I didn't have the Golden Oak shade I was looking for, but had a whole gallon of dark walnut I figured I'd try it. They turned out a bit darker than I'd like but all in all I think it looks much better!

  Next up is the silhouette art I'd seen on Pinterest.  With my father in law doing a ton of woodwork I knew he could stitch up some boards for me. He got some wormy maple and screwed them together and I took it home and stained it the same Dark Walnut I did the deer antlers with. Once that dried (really dried, like two days in the sun dry) I sketched out my silhouette and began painting. The whole process took a couple of hours, but I love it so much that I've started selling them. The first picture is from Pinterest, the other one is my version.
 
 
Here are the links to the tutorials I found on Pinterest for the other updates, as well as more before and after pictures. I hope you like it, and we cant wait to share our next room with you (once we finish!).
 
Oil Rubbed Bronze Light Fixtures

Before

Before
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Tuesday, December 23, 2014

Reevaluating Your Goals

As deer season winds down I'm left reflecting on one of the hardest, most humbling seasons of my life. With monster bucks filling my newsfeed every day, I was sure that this year would be the year I stuck a giant with my bow. What my optimism hid, however, was that we has less land than ever to hunt, with more people than ever trying to hunt it. People who have disregarded limits and legal buck sizes. Our number one hit list deer was harvested two weeks into the season. I had lost my first bow kill and then botched another bow attempt within two weeks of each other. I went 20 sits without seeing a deer. This was the year that I pushed my dream of a big buck aside and reevaluated my goals.
 On October 20th, I took a sick day from work with the hopes of sticking my first deer with a bow. This was my third year carrying my bow with nothing to show for it, so that morning, any deer would do. By 9:30 I hadn't seen a thing, discouraged, I decided to sit past 10 and make a whole day of it. At 10:15 I had 4 does within 18 yards. The front doe, who looked to be a good 130 pounds, stood broadside and dropped her head to feed. I stood, drew, settled and squeezed. When I released, I saw by lighted nock flew like a tracer and disappear behind her shoulder. She mule kicked and dug hard towards the thicket, tail tucked. I couldn't believe it. What I had dreamed about for years, what had I had played through in my mind sit after sit finally just happened. I knew it was a great hit. I slipped down, found my arrow, and saw the blood spatter on the trees. I knew she couldn't have ran 50 yards..

300 yards later in the middle of a clear cut, we lost blood. We tracked all day, which at its peak reached 70 degrees. We knew the deer was no good, but we kept trying. After 7 hours, we cut our losses. After some research, I think I hit a touch too low. The blood was bright and strong, but just stopped. We thought maybe she'd show back up on camera, but two months later she's yet to make an appearance. I guess its like turkey hunting.. when they say "if you haven't missed, you haven't hunted enough." Every bowhunter has made a mistake, lost a deer, or made a bad shot. I guess I can add that to my list now.

By November 15th, I hadn't seen another deer with my bow. I had been carrying by rifle pretty exclusively by this point, because this southern girl bundles up like Ralphie on A Christmas Story. I had seen a handful of does, but with six weeks left of the season, the prideful QDMA mentality had really taken hold of my train of thought. "Nope," Id tell myself ,"No does until the rut is over and I kill an 8 point of bigger. And the doe I do shoot better be 150 pounds or I'm not doing it." November 22nd comes and Brandon's killed two bucks, Bradley's taken four, and here I am with a big goose egg. I had a terrible stomach virus the Friday before, so Brandon and I sat together that morning. Fortunately, a gang of about eight does came out, and I finally got the monkey off of my back. I was just excited about that doe as I was about any buck I'd killed before. I was just as proud of that doe as anything else I'd taken.
So that's when it hit me. I had been so wrapped up in the mentality that if it didn't have big horns it wasn't worth it that I missed the whole point of this great sport. Horns aren't everything, and as much as Id love to kill a giant 10 point, a nice nanny doe will do just fine for me. Sometimes I think we have seasons like this just to make us value the little things and humble us. So far, this is my first season without horns, but I'm okay with that. With nine days left of the season, I'm looking to take another doe for our freezer. If buck walks out, I'll be grateful, but if I'm fortunate to take a doe, I'll be proud of her, too. Hunting isn't all big horns and big beards. Its time for some of us to reevaluate our goals and get back to the heart of hunting. Merry Christmas, everyone! And good luck to those of you hitting the woods for the last bit of the season!
 

Wednesday, November 5, 2014

Dying with Dignity

My Facebook feed has been 50% politics and 50% Brittany Maynard for the past four days. Normally, I'm one to stay away from these subjects because I hate debating on social media. I know this isn't hunting related, but I just wanted to voice my opinion on the matter of euthanasia.
 
In the 8th grade, we had to a "controversial" essay in literature class. This essay was to be accompanied by a speech supporting your case. At the age of thirteen, I wrote my essay on human euthanasia. For me, this has always been an easy decision and one that I support strongly. I feel everyone has the right to do what they want with their life, no matter what. If they really want to end  it, they're going to end it. They can either end it with drugs, or with a .45, the end result is the same. There are very few things that I support "politically" as strong as this, and if you want to debate it with me, I'm more than receptive. Before you do, let me give you some input as to why I feel the way I do.
 
I know the Lord holds the world in His hands. I know He knew what's going to happen in my life before I was even thought of. I believe in the Lord with all my heart. I see Him work in my life in so many ways, and I am so blessed to serve such a wonderful God. Using the defense "God chooses when we die, not us" is completely and absolutely contradictory to everything I believe. The Lord knew Brittany Maynard was going to end her life on November the first; long before she was even born. To say that He didn't would be saying that our Lord is not an all knowing God. People saying that Brittany Maynard is in Hell right now needs to read the bible. All sinners who asked the Lord to save them have been saved, no matter what they do in their life, they are going to Heaven. Whether Brittany Maynard was saved or not, no one knows but her and God, but I will not condemn her nor judge her. 1 Corinthians 10:13 "..but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it."
 
Many people say she is a coward with no faith. By cutting her life short, she cut of the Lord's plans for her. Once again, the Lord knew what was going to happen. The Lord is not "surprised" by our decisions. We don't cut God's plans short, He cuts us short. She may be a coward to some, but deciding to end your own life is something that I'm terrified of. There's a lady in our church right now who is dying. She's experiencing things that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. Her husband has to rush his best friend to the hospital on almost a weekly basis, always wondering if this is finally it. If that woman went outside right now and shot herself in the head to end the pain, would people consider her a coward? Would that say she has no faith? Her condition is terminal, 100% there is no coming back. Is the situation that much different? Yes, Brittany may have not been going through the worst of her illness yet, but once she got to that point, would they let her make that decision? Probably not. They would consider her not lucid enough to make a decision like that, and she would have been forced to die a very painful death. While one woman may be strong enough to fight it till the end, the other was strong in a completely different way.
 
I've seen people on their deathbed. I've known people who begged for a gun to end the pain. Shouldn't we be allowed to make a decision? Our bodies are temples, as said in the bible, but has that stopped people from getting tattoos? How about having your ears pierced? Leviticus 19:28 "Ye shall not make any cuttings in your flesh for the dead, nor print any marks upon you: I am the LORD." . How can we take a verse and so adamantly use it against tattoos, while having our ears pierced?  It's not fair to twist a bible verse to suit what you believe. Yes, biblically its wrong for her to end her life. But screaming that while having tattoos or piercings or being drunk on Saturdays is wrong, too. We are all sinners. Saved or not, we sin every single day in so many ways. To say that Brittany's sins is greater than your sins is not how Christians should act. Be a light unto the world, not condemning others because their light shines differently than yours.
 
I worked at a vet clinic in the past. Every, single day, I had a call from a disheartened pet owner. "Fluffy is getting old. He's 15, and in so much pain he cant even stand anymore." Do we value animal's lives over humans? I don't. An animal is an animal, a person is a person. I love my animals, but I've  also made the decision that I love them enough o stop the suffering. The principle is the same. If I get diagnosed with Alzheimer's, and I know there is nothing lying ahead of me other than dementia and forgetting everyone I love, I want a way out. I want to be able to save my family as well as myself the pain of dying a death like that. "But what ifs they find a cure but you killed yourself so you missed out on it?"  I'll be with Jesus, because I'm saved. Do you really think I'll care what happens on earth once I'm in Heaven?

I'm beginning to ramble, so I'll end with this. It was Brittany's life to end, not yours. Lauren Hill, another terminally ill cancer patient, pursued her dreams of playing a college basketball game. I've seen a lot of people making remarks along the lines of "see, Brittany, Laurens the REAL brave one. She didn't give up." That's low. Maybe Brittany's goal was to spend her life lucid and surrounded by her family. Why condemn one girl's goal for another's just because it goes against your personal belief. Everyone is different, that's what makes America wonderful. We need to remember that diversity isn't just in our favorite foods, it's in our life goals, too. You never know what battle someone is facing. Above all things, you should pray for someone rather than judge them.
 
**DISCLAIMER**
In this post I am not saying that we should make euthanasia a norm. I'm stating why I feel Brittany Maynard should not be condemned for what she did with her life.

Monday, September 8, 2014

Quality vs. Quantity

With deer season quickly approaching, I've seen tons trash talking going on through social media (is it bad I always get inspired for blogs because some people are just rude?!). What's a lot of it about? QDM, or Quality Deer Management for those not familiar. Want to see people get flustered? Bring up your views on QDM.
 
 

Why, you ask? Because hunting popularity is growing at a mind blowing rate, and with more people hunting, you're bound to have disagreements. Whether you bow hunt, or gun hunt, hunt over bait or not, spot and stalk or blind hunt, there's on common denominator: you're there to kill deer. So why is what other people kill such an issue? Because some people hunt horns, some people hunt meat.
To all the horn hunters out there, I applaud you. To pass on a 150" deer because its only 4 years old is something I probably will never be able to do. People like you, educating and expanding knowledge of QDMA is the reason deer management is getting better and better with every season. With that being said, deer management isn't going to work for everyone. Now before you jump on me about being ignorant because I don't let 3 year olds walk, just give me a chance and keep reading.
To all the meat hunters out there, do what you gotta do. You're out there doing everything that trophy hunters are doing but for all the right reasons. You cant eat horns, and I give you mad respect for not giving into the QDMA pressure. But for the love of all things holy, can we let the spikes and button heads walk?!
See, there's a third category here and I feel like it doesn't get enough recognition. Sometimes in the midst of a heated quality vs quantity debate, I see that group of hunters speak up. They normally say something along the lines of "every scenario is different. What works in Ohio may not work here." I'm one of them. That balance between everything dies because I need meat and everything walks because I want a 180 inch deer. Where we hunt in upstate South Carolina is slowly gaining popularity for some big deer, mainly due to QDMA practices. However, deer management doesn't mean your going to kill a monster every year, and here's why I don't necessarily practice QDMA as hard as I should.
 
I hunt tiny parcels of land surrounded by other hunters. I'm talking twenty acres and less. At one point, our biggest track of land (twenty acres) was being hunted by five gun hunters in one morning. That's four acres per person, and every other hunter in that group is shooting anything that moves. So, while passing on young bucks is a admirable idea, it never means that buck is going to make it to next year.
We go to a church with a decent sized congregation. A good many of that congregation eats mainly deer meat. Also, most of that group isn't able (physically) to go hunt every chance they can. So they ask us, every season, if we could get them a deer or two. As of today, we have to get eight deer for them before we can even meat hunt for ourselves. With our tag numbers changing and doe days going down, that doesn't leave much room for us to be picky.
People who say taking X amount of does is just too many. Well, that may be true for your land, but our land may be different. Its all about animal density. Some places need fifty does taken a year to keep the ratio correct. Some places may only need five.
 

Everyone's situation is different. I've seen people crying "that's not how you manage deer!" because they're mad that they've only killed a doe. Other people are genuinely concerned about making our deer population better for the future. I'm in between. I always pass spikes and button heads. I try to pass fours and other really young bucks, but if its December and our freezer is empty, I'm not letting pride get in the way of my dinner. My husband is a pure meat hunter, and yeah, he may not kill big deer, but he fills our freezer every single year. So before you bash someone because they didn't let that three year old walk, think of all the different scenarios that person may be in. If you've never even killed a buck and you hunt three times a year, please do not preach to me about deer management. I don't want to hear you say "this is how deer management is supposed to work" when their friend kills a buck (the first buck that's been killed on that land for three years, just sayin'). When our family says "We've killed twelve this year!" remember, that's between four people. Also keep in mind, that over half of that went to families that needed it.
My husband and I have been in many "debates" about quality vs quantity. When we first got together and I really got into hunting, I thought it would be like the outdoor channel. I went three years letting deer walk because I honestly thought I would kill a monster if I did. So I spared lives for three years, and I also went three years without killing or even seeing anything close to a shooter buck. Last year, I followed his ways and decided to focus on meat, and this year I'm most certainly doing the same. Especially with a bow, nothing is off limits (other than spikes and button heads). If you have a problem with that, than feel free to look away, because we're here to eat deer, not horns. I hope everyone has a wonderful season, no matter which you choose to pursue. And I hope that everyone thinks before they type this year too, because no one is the same and that what makes this sport so wonderful. Embrace the difference and share the love of hunting no matter what different views you may have!